(The following is a transcription from a video Linda and I recorded. Please excuse any typos or errors.)
You’re burning your hard earned money if you do these eight things often. Are you doing these eight things? I hope not.
So, we just found this article and haven’t read through it to know what these eight things are yet.
And I don’t know if we’re burning our hard-earned money with these or not.
But, Linda and I are going to go through them and we’re going to find out what these eight things are with you.
Before we get started, if you’d rather join our YouTube SeedTime community and watch our discussion, you can do so here:
And, if not, enjoy the video transcript below!
1. You Justify Buying The Cheap Stuff
Linda: You justify buying the cheap stuff. Like what?
Bob: “We think we’re saving money if we opt for the cheaper options, but in truth, quality lasts longer. Looking at more expensive options as an investment rather than unnecessary expense is a better mindset to have.”
Linda: I absolutely agree with this. We have had this conversation recently because for me, this is like when I’m buying for our home. There’ll be the one thing that I really want-
Bob: Let’s tell them what we’re talking about. We’re talking about whatever, buying this crazy expensive rug versus buying a cheaper rug. So I think the danger here is when you think that you always have to spend a ton of money to get something good. Because that’s the balance point here. But yes, I think always going for the cheapest thing, you might be saving a little bit of money, but in the long run, yeah, you’re wasting money.
2. You Justify Buying Sale Items
Bob: Number two, you justify buying sale items.
Linda: Oh my gosh. This is my dad.
Bob: “We’re led to believe that buying stuff on sale is saving money. If you’re in a supermarket and what you intend to buy is on sale then great. But we can get caught up in thinking that we’re getting a bargain when really, we’d never have bought that item in the first place if it weren’t on sale.” I think this is my dad too.
Bob: It’s that generation, it’s the boomer generation.
Linda: Is my dad a boomer?
Bob: Your dad might be older than a boomer, I don’t know.
Linda: This is so true though, because you fall into that trap of like, “Well, I’ve saved this much money.” It’s like, “Well, you still spent money to buy that.”
Bob: All right. So now is the point where you need to hit that like button to let YouTube know so that we can have more than you and our grandma and our mom watch this video.
Linda: What if we just go, “Ding?”
3. Your Savings Account Is Too Easy To Access
Bob: Number three, your savings account is too easy to access. Yeah. I understand that. For people who don’t have much self control, you need to put some walls in place. And if not having the savings account there is what you need to do, then that’s what we need to do.
Linda: Bob is the wall that I have in place.
Bob: I’m your wall to keep you from spending all of our money. Number four.
4. You Don’t Wait 30 Days Before Big Purchases
Linda: You don’t wait 30 days before big purchases.
Bob: It’s pretty long.
Linda Lotich: That’s a long time. Maybe big purchase like a house, is that what we’re talking about?
Bob: Maybe. Maybe a car, house, maybe a sunroom.
Linda: We’ve been waiting a lot longer than 30 days, I’ll tell you that one.
Bob: We’ve been wanting a sun room for a long time.
Linda: We still don’t have one.
Bob: We’re still waiting.
Linda: We’re still waiting. So I feel like we can check that one off the list.
Bob: Yeah, we still want it. Number five.
5. You Don’t Write Lists Of What You Need Before Shopping (and stick to it)
Linda: You don’t write lists of what you need before shopping and stick to it. This is extremely accurate, I think, with groceries. That’s a very common one.
But we’re doing a little bit of home improvements around our house and decorating. Bob was like, “How much money are you planning on spending?” And I was like, “I don’t know, just however much money it takes.” And he’s like, “No, you have to set a budget. And we’re going to write down everything we want.”
Bob: We have to decide on the front end how much we’re going to spend.
Linda: So he said, “Let’s write down everything we want and let’s figure out how much money we’re going to need in order to do that.” Just going in willy nilly, which is what I love to do-
Bob: It’s a bad idea. It’s a bad idea.
Linda: But then you get everything you want.
Bob: Yeah. But then you’re in credit card debt up to your eyeballs really soon.
6. You Waste Time Finding Cheap Deals
Linda: All right, all right. You waste your time finding cheap deals. The emphasis here is on time. I completely agree. We spend so much time researching in order to find the best deals. And often these moments, the best deals actually pass us by or sell out. This is so me.
Bob: Tell me about it.
Linda: Because my tendency is more of an impulse buyer, when I married you, you were like, “Let’s look around and see if there’s a better deal.” Well, now I research stuff to death. And by the time I’m ready to buy, I either don’t like it anymore or it’s gone. No joke.
Bob: Well, it’s good if you don’t like it anymore. That’s the waiting thing that has helped, right?
Linda: Yeah. But then I’m like, “Well, now what do I do? I got to start this whole process over again.” And I can’t make any steps forward because I’m paralyzed by researching the best deal. This is a problem for me. It’s not a problem for you. I feel like you have a good balance. But for me it is.
Bob: Yeah, I get that.
7. You Don’t Set Realistic Goals
We actually forgot to discuss number seven. But, setting realistic goals for yourself is very important!
8. You Don’t Carve Out Time To Declutter Your House
Linda: Okay. Number eight, last one. You don’t carve out time to declutter your house.
“Decluttering your living space is one of the best things you can do to save money. Not only because you can sell many of your old items and actually make money, but it also transforms the space in your mind as well. Once you realize that you don’t need so many possessions to make you happy, it will shift your mindset and make you more aware of unnecessary spending in the future.”
Bob: True. True. True. True, true, true. So I challenged myself to go around the house and declutter and sell stuff off. There was $2,147 we made in one month selling off junk from around our house.
Linda: I will say you do have a good bit of hobbies. I don’t think I have-
Bob: So I got rid of a good amount of hobby stuff.
Linda: Yeah. I don’t think I had that much to sell on my own, but I could be wrong.
Bob: But no, everybody’s wrong. This is the thing. There’ve been studies done that show that the average household has over $5,000 worth of stuff that can be sold online. Most people are like, “There’s no way. There’s no way.” And we didn’t find 5,000, but we found over 2000 in one month.
Linda: And I love the point that they talk about decluttering helps you see what you have and kind of appreciate more what you actually do have.
Bob: Yeah, that was a really good point.
Linda: There have been times when I’ve gone in my closet and I’ve said, “There’s nothing here to wear.” When I clearly have a closet full of clothes. But as soon as I start getting rid of things that I don’t like wearing anymore, then it’s like I can see all the stuff that I really love wearing. And it’s like, “I have plenty. I don’t need to buy anything else. There’s no holes in my wardrobe even.”
What Else Would You Add To The List?
Bob: Let us know what else you would add to this list. Let us know down in the comments.
Linda: And which one are you most guilty of?
clive tay says
what you mentioned on the 8 things , I did them all by
1) Purchase the need by quality come first
2) no purchase done after pay package and paid by cash nothing thro credit or hire purchase
3) car own by saving for 12 years and then purchase by cash for brand new
4) not old item for sale unless it worn out and sell as scrap metal. mostly of the item are hand made by buying raw material. even the blender are repair instead of buy new, fridge are repaired when broken c=down after 20 years.
5) my family realistic goal is to invest in the kingdom ministry. accept no gift or love token strictly to the word freely receive freely give.
6) no time in looking for cheap thing but on quality thing to compare the LCM .
7) never had any list for marketing Just buy what feel like to eat for the day.
8)Bank account are not use in any form of purchase but only for plague in the kingdom ministry.
I only stay to pray and wait for the downporing from the window for my ministry with the people with heart to work together and grow in the ministry with all the saving I owned when I can work like Paul, Now with my grwing age with much saving I see how to grow with the minimal I have to build a prayer house on the mountain top to serve the ministry, any advis
Kerry J Watkins says
You missed eating out too much. All it does is add to the waistline and subtract from the bank balance.
clive tay says
Kingdom of God was my meals in too much offering and donation in my youth and now that I am retiring , I cannot see much in the Church community eat as much as I do to pay for God need meals. I wanted to have a restaurant for the kingdom ministry and seek for prayer warriors to pray and seek God intervention as the vision seen is from Him and Him alone.
clive tay says
I was in the filed ministry and my meals out there was plenty and I need prayer warrior to come and join hand with me so that I can expand more out as my wanted us to be there but I cannot pay the bill as the needy are too poor to pay for the meals expenses. with my limited saving , I provide all I can within my distance and already cannot have enough sleep and rest.
Do pray for those interest to join in the expansion and feed the sheep’s.
His creation need the light and love
Saima Malik says
Hi, it’s a wonderful article, thanks for sharing you precious knowledge
There is so much I used to do that was just burning holes into my money, now I am smarter and saving where I can. Switching from takeaways to home made foods, even going as far as catching all the deals I can throughout the year.
clive tay says
You are mentioning between seed time and fruit which come first, will harvest what Holy Spirit produces in them, that they will be “filled” with all that Christ’s righteousness yields.
Pray for our mission in China as a Singaporean and need much direct support and fellowship for continued Blessing begin TRUE VINE FRUIT and harvest.
For God Yes is yes and no is no are His character in giving and is Epaphroditus Phil. 2:25-30
Phill 2:25 Yet I supposed it necessary to send to you Epaphroditus (presents the Brother who brought the Love-Offering from the Philippians to Paul in Rome), my Brother, and companion in labour, and fellowsoldier, but your messenger (accolades given by Paul, but yet sanctioned by the Holy Spirit), and he who ministered to my wants. (The Apostle held the service of Epaphroditus in high regard.)
Phill 2:26 For he longed after you all, and was full of heaviness (due to his sickness), because that you had heard that he had been sick. (This indicates that Epaphroditus is now much improved.)
Phill 2:27 For indeed he was sick nigh unto death (he almost died): but God had mercy on him (proclaims the manner in which everything is received from God—all by the Mercy of God); and not on him only, but on me also, lest I should have sorrow upon sorrow. (This proclaims the fact that if the man had died, it would have been a great loss to the Apostle and to the Work of God.)
Phill 2:28 I sent him therefore the more carefully (Paul hopes to send Epaphroditus to Philippi very soon), that, when ye see him again, you may rejoice (presents the fact of the recovery or the healing of this man), and that I may be the less sorrowful (Paul’s sorrow has been alleviated).
Phill 2:29 Receive him therefore in the Lord with all gladness (it seems there had been a problem in the Church in Philippi as it regards Epaphroditus, but the man has so proven himself to Paul that the Apostle can recommend him highly); and hold such in reputation (give honor to whom honor is due, and Epaphroditus is to be held in honor):
Phill 2:30 Because for the work of Christ he was nigh unto death, not regarding his life (it seems he became very ill because of overwork), to supply your lack of service toward me. (This evidently refers to something the Philippians couldn’t do because of circumstances, but which Epaphroditus did on their behalf.)
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Ridzi Arora says
I appreciate your efforts. All points are very helpful. Thank you so much for sharing.
Thank you, Bob and Linda for sharing!!! I’m most guilty of not carving out time to declutter. I have a lot of things I can get rid of, and I often look around and say I need to go through things and streamline, but then something comes up and I don’t do it. I am going to put on my calendar a time to declutter. 🙂